Gamer’s Thoughts: “Games are a waste of time”

gamedealsHappy Mothers day 2017! A phrase I hear my mom saying from time to time is: “I don’t understand why people enjoy games.”. That question actually made me think. Why do we gamers enjoy games? Why do people who don’t play games see them sometimes as annoying or time wasters? Well, in this article I’m going to give my two cents in the discussion. As usual, feel free to leave a comment about your opinion and/or my opinion in the comment section down below. 

Why do I play games?

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First of all, let me explain why I play games. In an article last year, I tried to explain why I play games. But in most of the article, I talked about why I collect games.

So, why do I play games? Well, I think it’s because of several reasons. The first reason would be because I grew up in a time where playing the Gameboy was the hip thing to do on the school playground. Pokémon was extremely popular when I was in elementary and I was hooked. Then my family took me to various garage sales and flea markets. I bought more and more games on the Gameboy and I got hooked.

The second reason is because it was a very easy conversation topic. When I was on a trip, I was able to talk to other kids easily thanks to games. Phrases like: “What are you playing?”, “Have you played game X” or “How far are you into the game?” are phrases that often crossed my lips as a child. I made so many friends thanks to games.

A 3rd reason would be that I was so interested in reading and telling stories. But why am I less addicted to movies or books then? Well, the interactivity is the biggest reason. The fact I can make a difference in the world the game is so important to me. That’s why I love games that have a great story.

So, in conclusion, I think due to nostalgia and the interactive nature of gaming, I got hooked on gaming and never let go. Nowadays, I even have a 4th and 5th reason. My 4th reason is that I’m interested in how people get entertained by games. If I had the right skills, I would have studied game design.

And my 5th reason is this blog, honestly. I love to share stories of games I played. And writing a blog about them is one of the best ways to share them. The best way is YouTube, but I burned out on making videos…

Why do people play games?

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I’m quite sure that gaming is here to stay. While some hardcore gamers won’t like the next sentence, but due to the casual mobile gaming market, there are much more people play games than ever before.

The fact that gaming is a national sport in South Korea and that people earn their living with playing games are more proof that gaming is here to stay.

I think that the reason why people play games is similar to why people watch Netflix all day or read books in their free time. It’s their way of entertaining themselves. To relax after a (stressful) day at school or work.

People will always look for a way to entertain themselves. Another reason is that the current generation is growing up with a culture where video games are everywhere. Speaking about that, games are becoming more and more accessible to young children. And look at me, when you do something since childhood, it isn’t easy to let go.

Why games can be annoying/uninteresting

5562ecfd-2740-4c50-b148-64b882408fa0 When I ask people who don’t play games, I sometimes get a reply like: “I don’t have the time for them” or “I’m not interested in them.” Which are both very valid arguments, in my opinion. But they aren’t good answers to why people can find games annoying or a waste of time.

Well, I have a few theories for why people think that games can be annoying. Keep in mind, this is just a theory. Why I think people find games annoying. Also, let me make on thing clear, I’m talking in very general terms in the following theories. I know that we as humans are a more complex race.

My first theory is that people don’t like the interactivity of the games. They enjoy TV-shows where they can sit down and just take in the content. Or you could replace TV-shows with movies, books, plays, concerts…

A 2nd theory is one I think makes a lot of sense of the older generation. The fact that they didn’t grow up with games but saw children and teenagers grow up with them. In their eyes, games would be a toy for children and for teenagers, so their interest fades away. “Why would something that’s meant for children is any use to me?” is a thought that summarizes this theory. A generation gap if you will.

A 3rd theory is because they don’t see the appeal to games. They don’t understand what can be so engaging in playing games. Also, they don’t understand what additional value games can bring to people since most games are entertainment games. There aren’t a lot of gamers who play educational games just for fun. And I mean, that their favorite genre is educational games.

A 4th theory is the loud toxic minority that gives us gamers a bit reputation. People who do violent things and then blame it on violent video games. I think that media outlets especially can be a problem in this case. Since they give non-gamers the impression that every game is so violent and that it taints people their brain. Maybe we just need to get past the phase that certain styles of music and movies went through.

But, I’m getting off track. What I mean with the loud toxic minority are the people who actually go out their way to make the gaming community look like a bunch of unwelcome jerks. People who won’t help others to play games. Thankfully, there are a lot of forums, websites, and networks that are meant to welcome new gamers with open arms. But sadly enough, it’s the loud toxic minority that sometimes gives communities a bad reputation. And people tend to generalize… So yeah, I think I made my point clear here.

So, that are a few theories I have. I wonder how you guys think about them. Feel free to leave a comment with your opinion on my theories. But please, keep it civil. I’m open to discussion, but I’m not open to flame wars.

Wrapping up

So, should we force people to play games? Well, no. We should ask them why they don’t like games and invite them to give games a chance. I accepted that members of my family don’t enjoy playing games. I don’t enjoy reading that much while my mom loves to read a lot of books.

Before I forget, this whole article has been inspired by the quote of my mother I used in the introduction of my article. So, thank you, mom, for this great idea! I hope you had a great mothers day today!

Thank you for reading this article and I hope you enjoyed reading this as much as I enjoyed writing this article. I hope to be able to welcome you in another article but until then, have a great rest of your day and take care!

The Aware Character: S1 C1 Episode 2: Anger and the doorbell

The Aware Character.

A (short) story written by: NekoJonez

© 2014 Arpegi – All Rights Reserved.

Season 1: Discovery of the Generic Tales.

Chapter 1: The Old Plot – Episode 2: Anger and the doorbell.

His mind went in overdrive. “Nope, nope, nope. NOPE!” George thought. He couldn’t believe it. He thought that it was another trick of her to get more money out of him.

He threw himself on his bed and planted his face down on his pillow and started screaming out of anger. “No way! Sophie has to be lying! BITCH!” George shouted. After a few minutes, the doorbell rang. The loud sounds where going through the living room.

George got out of bed, tried to stop crying and opened the door. Nobody was there. He slammed his door shut with brute force. Only a small moment he was afraid that he used so much force that one of the windows near his front door could crack.

Then the doorbell rang again. George directly opened the door, and once more, nobody was there. Not even a soul. He was puzzled. How could somebody ring at a door and hide so quickly?

It was on that moment that George’s inspiration went wild. He suddenly got ideas for his book. He closed the door calmly this time and he walked towards his desk. He took place on his chair and booted up his computer.

His chair was one he couldn’t throw away. Long ago, on a holiday job, George had to look after a group of children and entertain them. As a prank they painted his chair in various colors of paint. Nearly every color you can think of. The staff decided that George should keep the chair as a souvenir.

The computer booted faster than usual. “That virus I removed last night… Possibly it slowed the booting up down.” That was the only thought that went through his mind about it.

George opened his usual set of programs and directly started typing away. Chapter after chapter, it was as easy as breathing. The story was writing itself. Somehow his invisible guest gave him a stream of ideas. He compared it to the story when the Holy Spirit helped the apostles when Jezus died. George kept writing until he fell asleep on his de

~ Dream sequence starts here. ~

George got up from his chair. He looked around and saw an empty room. A lamp hanging down from the ceiling was the only light source in the room. The atmosphere in the room felt like a questioning room from some big investigation group.

In front of him sat a man, just of out the light. George couldn’t see a lot from the man. There was one thing that confirmed his gender. The man was singing a lullaby. Not any lullaby, one that he wrote in one of his horror novels.

George was confused. He knew that he was dream but how could two stories cross paths in a way he never intended? The story he was currently writing was a detective thriller. “It has nothing to do with the horror story I wrote. That was about a man singing you to sleep. Killing their victims… in… their… dreams….”

< \ ~ TO BE CONTINUED ~ / >

What is this?

Recently I wanted to start writing my own story. And this is the format I’ll release it in. Compare it to my creepypasta’s but this story will continue.

When I find the time, I’m writing one Word page for each episode. I know this is short but keep in mind that my exams and such are upcoming… So yeah, I need to have something that I can publish quickly.

The second episode has been written already. I don’t have a plan in mind how regular the episodes will be. I’ll try to publish at least one each month.

I hope you guys enjoy. Feel free to leave in the comments some suggestions to where I should take the story. I have a main plot line planned but I love playing with input of my readers.

Don’t worry, this side project won’t take over my usual gaming content. It will also serve as a sort of variety for me. I was getting afraid that I started to get burned out on writing game reviews. But since I started writing this story, I found my motivation back.

Anyways, thanks for reading and I hope to see you in the next episode.

Update: I know that the story can use a ton of improvements. Now, I got some very amazing feedback for some people on my forum. The feedback will be more present in the next episodes.

The Aware Character: S1 C1 Episode 1: Introduction

The Aware Character.

A (short) story written by: NekoJonez

© 2014 Arpegi – All Rights Reserved.

Season 1: Discovery of the Generic Tales.

Chapter 1: The Old Plot – Episode 1: Introduction.

“I can’t write this story.” he said. He was staring at his desk. Checking if anything was being placed on his piece of paper. He recently broke up with his girlfriend. They broke up after he found out that she was actually a lesbian. She was using him to get money for shopping sprees and various other costly activities. He had enough of it one day, when a letter made him crash down into reality.

It was a letter from the bank. He was nearly broke. The letter was to tell him that his spending pattern was irregular. Of course, his girlfriend stole his credit card and bought it empty.

The man is going by the name of George. He was a rather short man. His face was that of a strict but understanding and kind teacher. Those teachers that are extremely strict yet friendly and make you feel comfortable.

He had brown hair, for now. Some guys have something that’s rather famine. His thing was that he sometimes painted his hair into different colors. He was actually planning to paint it black. Since that would match his mood better.

The break-up with his girlfriend ripped him apart. His new white shirt was getting soaked due to the tears. He cried so much that his shirt was nearly see-through. At least the middle part was.

He pulled his jeans up, tied his leather shoes again and went to the bathroom. He took a long shower. The shampoo and the water, it did his mind well. The steam was filling his bathroom.

The bathroom was one of the rooms that he didn’t spend much on when he built his house. It only contained a shower, toilet, washing table and a cupboard. The light was haunted or so he was told. When he got friends over, the light bulb would away burst. George blamed the bad technician that worked on the bathroom. He tried to call that technician various times before without success.

He walked out of the shower. The towel was thrown on to the washing table. “I will clean … Why the fack am I talking out loud again?” George said. He questioned his sanity. Many people and friends started to actually leave him behind.

But one night, his ex-girlfriend called. She was pregnant of him.

< \ ~ TO BE CONTINUED ~ / >

What is this?

Recently I wanted to start writing my own story. And this is the format I’ll release it in. Compare it to my creepypasta’s but this story will continue.

When I find the time, I’m writing one Word page for each episode. I know this is short but keep in mind that my exams and such are upcoming… So yeah, I need to have something that I can publish quickly.

The second episode has been written already. I don’t have a plan in mind how regular the episodes will be. I’ll try to publish at least one each month.

I hope you guys enjoy. Feel free to leave in the comments some suggestions to where I should take the story. I have a main plot line planned but I love playing with input of my readers.

Don’t worry, this side project won’t take over my usual gaming content. It will also serve as a sort of variety for me. I was getting afraid that I started to get burned out on writing game reviews. But since I started writing this story, I found my motivation back.

Anyways, thanks for reading and I hope to see you in the next article!

Update blog #1: I’m back!

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Screenshot of Master Reboot, a game I have been playin’.

Oh hi there. It’s true that in November I took a bit of a break from writing. Sometimes it’s better to rest and concentrate on things. So, I’m going to try to keep this update article short. To tell you guys what’ll be going on, planned articles and various other things. So, let’s avoid long introductions and let’s get to the meat and bones of this article. 

Reason of break

To be quite honest, I didn’t plan this break into my life. I adore writing and I wanted to write a new article daily. Yet, I felt like my creativity wasn’t up the normal level I have at writing articles. So, I didn’t finish them.

College has been “harsh” on me. Many things have been coming on to me. From a load of assignments to lots of things that we need to study. And the time I got from stopping YouTube, I used to do some college work.

Also, I have been addicted to Minecraft, since I play on a server from a friend. I met him through my guest appearance on his stream. Yet feel free to check out his YouTube channel. So, I’m on a server called the “FireServer”. A private whitelisted server. This’ll be extremely exciting since I’ll do a lot of guest appearances in video’s. (For helping redstone stuff).

In addition to that, I have been finishing games. To write articles about and since some I started, those take up a bit more time to finish and then to make up my mind for the article.

So in short, I have been busy with college and preparing myself for a new bunch of articles. And before you ask me, what’s coming… Well, let’s just take a look at that.

Oh, and these articles will be listed underneath personal. Just because I’m kinda tired lately when I come home and making a new category for this is a bit too overwhelming to maintain.

The future

So, a few podcasts with me’ll arrive shortly. Together with Q I talk about a lot of things that annoyed me in the gaming community and other places. And also about my personal life. I’m pretty excited how it will turn out. Yet, you will have to excuse him for being so busy. And I might do a give-away soon, on one of these podcasts.

I’m nearly done with Phoenix Wright – Ace Attorney 5: Dual Destinies. So, prepare to see later tonight or this week-end an extra long article about it. Why extra long? Since I feel this game deserves it and to apologize to take such a long break.

Also, I’m working on a new Android games article. Where I’ll present some awesome new games I’m playing lately on my tablet during college breaks.

Game Diary’s will soon return with a new article on ButtonSmashers as well. I’m ready to create a new one. In addition, I feel like I’m ready to write a new creepypasta article too!

And some games deserve a first impression article! Some on 3DS, some on PSP and some on PC. So, that will be interesting.

Anyways, I think I covered it all. Thanks for reading and hopefully until the next blog! Take care.